(Closed) Wedding Party Dilemma

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
212 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I wouldn’t pick your wedding party until 9 months before you get married. I picked my wedding party 1.5 years prior and had a falling out with a friend who I wish would drop out, however I would never ask her to do so. You don’t necessarily have to have a wedding party. You could have Bridesmen!

Post # 4
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You could just do Maid/Matron of Honor, Best Man, and then have the rest of the men be a generic bridal party, with a few on each side of you.

Ditto @orchid84:  Take a few more months to choose, just in case!

Post # 6
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We have 3 on each side(mine are all matrons of honor) then I have 7 honorary bridesmaids and he has 4 others as ushers. We are both 29, have lots of friends but realized that having a lot of

People standing up with us took away from us. Our lifelong friends are who’s up on stage with us and everyone else is serving as the honorary and usher. Everyone LOVED the idea! My honorary girls are picking their own dress in a specific colorant, will hav a flower pinned in their hair, and will be escorted down aisle by their spouses, when seating of family occurs and sit in row behind my parents. They’ll be in some

Group wedding pics as well! My Maid/Matron of Honor are in matching dresses and will be in all wedding group shots 🙂 when I was 21 I wanted 12 girls on stage with me, but as I’ve gotten older and been in and attended tons of weddings, I just realized that it was more about us than our friends. We are very Pleased with how it’s working out!

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