(Closed) Wedding Party Drop Out…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2916 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

I think your attitude of only wanting people there who genuinely want to be there is the thing to focus on, that’s the healthy way to look at it. You can’t change him or his mind, and if you did, you’d probably end up wondering if he was wishing he was elsewhere. Your Fiance should do what he wants when the time comes in regards to being in this guy’s wedding party — just leave the decision to him, it should be his to make.

It does stink that this guy is bailing now, I feel for you and I hope your Fiance isn’t too upset about it.

Post # 5
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I also had a bridesmaid drop of out my wedding 4 weeks before. She was so supportive and she was the one who organized my whole bridal shower voluntarily. It really hurt but ultimately she made the best decision for herself and I was really happy with who was standing up with me on the day. She backed out for personal reasons that didn’t have anything to do with me and it sounds like that’s just the way you have to look at it with this groomsmen.

Post # 6
30 posts
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think his friend sucks! Sorry but that’s pretty sh*tty of him to drop out, and expect you Fiance to be apart of his big day, however I think your Fiance is right by not stooping to his level.

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