- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
I’ve been trying to decide whether to ask my mom or my brother to be my MoH at my Florida wedding in December. Right now it’s just my 13-year-old future SIL and we’re not the best of friends. My original MoH ran into financial trouble and is not going to be able to join me, so this is where I am.
Today, I discussed this with my FH and he told me that, while he’ll support whatever I decide, he doesn’t think I should ask my mom. His mother has a knack for causing insane drama over ANYTHING (she somehow turned us inviting her on a family vacation in 2014 with hotel fully paid for into a big dramatic mess) and he thinks that if I ask my mom that it will be “stirring the pot” as he put it. I think I’m just going to discuss it with my mom and see how badly she wants to keep the peace with the future in-laws. I’m so frustrated over this! But at least I have a brother to ask.
What would you do in this situation?