(Closed) Wedding Party Woes

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1328 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I don’t think I’d invite her into the Bridal Party regardless.  Maybe I’m a little too cold-hearted, but if the Maid/Matron of Honor had serious issues with her, I wouldn’t want to stir the pot.  Im sure the friend isn’t expecting a slot in the Bridal Party.  If you insist on her being in the Bridal Party, maybe just make her a bridesmaid.  Don’t step on your Maid/Matron of Honor toes.  It’d make her feel second rate, or that you regret asking her to be Maid/Matron of Honor in the first place.

Post # 4
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Since you’ve just re-connected with her, I would almost say leave her out of the official party and just invite her to all the pre-wedding events and maybe let her do a reading. You’ve gone five years without speaking to her, so I think I would be slightly cautious about diving quite so far into the friendship puddle

Post # 5
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5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

im with the other girls on this- it’s great that you’ve recently reconnected, but i’d give some time to see where this friendship is headed and a chance for it to form without that pressure riding on it. 

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