(Closed) Wedding Party/Family DRAMA!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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3620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Yes, that is fine! As long as your Fiance is okay with it!

Post # 4
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2714 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

First of all, I’m sorry you’re dealing with all of this!!

But to answer your question YES! This is totally acceptable. One of my best guy friends – who is not really close with my Fiance at all – is going to a groomsman. We have the same setup as you. 6 bridesmaids, 3 groomsmen. Asking one of my guy friends brings it up to 6 and 4. Talk to your Fiance about it, I’m sure it will be okay.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

The whole idea of having bridesmaids and groomsmen is so you have people to stand with you and your fiance, giving support and encouragement on your future marriage and lives together. It should not matter where they stand, they are there for you two. Also, I know the pleasing everyone is hard to do and especially if they are future family. To take some stress off of you and your fiance, plan a date night for just you and him, no talking wedding, just enjoying each others company. You and him will ease some stress and hopefully be refreshed to get back into planning mode the next day.

Good luck!!

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m not sure if this is something you’d consider, but maybe you could split up the guys and the girls?  Have your FI’s sisters stand on his side and be ‘Groom’s Attendants’?  My good friend did this and her Fiance wore a tux and the ladies on his side wore gorgeous black gowns.  It looked really good and didn’t scream ‘untraditional’.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I don’t really see why his sisters don’t stand with him? And if you want your guy friends to be in the wedding as well, have them stand on your side?  That would make way more sense to me.

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