(Closed) Professional Wedding Photos and Vent (Pic heavy)

posted 5 years ago in Recaps
Post # 3
2324 posts
Buzzing bee

I hope that you can one day let go of all that negativity, for your own sake, & enjoy all of the positive memories your day brought – you are now a married lady! Congrats!

Post # 4
184 posts
Blushing bee

I am terrible about letting go of regrets, so I can’t offer advice on that end. I do know that what is past, is past. But looking at your photos, you would never know that you didn’t get everything you ever wanted! They look AMAZING — absolutely stunning. I hope you can look at them and not feel the regrets of your wedding day and instead think of that amazing guy you just married and how wonderful you both looked on the big day (and what a great photographer you hired, even if they didn’t get every shot). 

Post # 5
1722 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

That all sounds really crappy BUT on the plus side you look absolutly beautiful and very happy.  And even though you were having problems with it your veil looks amazing in these pictures.  I really hope one day you can look back on that day and smile.

Post # 6
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Alyssabree:  I’m sorry that happen on your day! Your pictures are Beautiful. there were a few things at my wedding i wish I could’ve changed but it’s over now. My photographer was a family friend and there were a few pictures that I wish I would’ve gotten but didn’t. I think the bridal Photoshoot would be awesome! I thought about doing something like that for my one year anniversary just for fun.

Post # 7
8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

you look gorgeous!!!! Honestly I see nothing wrong with your pictures! I love the veil blowing in the wind!!! 

Post # 9
1076 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

If you want to do another bridal shoot, I say go for it. Congratulations on your marriage, and on being gracious and being the bigger person when dealing with your MIL! I hope you can completely move forward from what happened and be happy ๐Ÿ™‚



Post # 10
358 posts
Helper bee

Noone is going to remember any of those details except you.  it’s really only a problem if you let it be.

Post # 11
2662 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Awwww honey. I know it’s natural to dwell on the negatives. What his mother did, all of it, was terrible. Completely terrible. You have every right to be angry towards her. Let it run its course then allow yourself to forgive. I’m not talking about trying to have a normal relationship but healing yourself. As for the biggest regret of letting people walk over you…forgive yourself. Truly forgive yourself. The day was hectic as weddings are, and things like this happen. Try to focus on having a great time partying with loved ones. If you want to have a bridal shoot, I say do it! Many brides have one before the day, and I don’t think there’s any reason that you can’t do one afterwards. I think it would be really empowering, and you get to have a bonus day to wear that gorgeous dress!


ETA: Congratulations!!

Post # 12
680 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m sorry that hapened to you, but seriously, YOU LOOK AMAZING! Your photos are fabulous!

Post # 13
2869 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I read your rant… *hugs* I’m so sorry that your Mother-In-Law had to start all that drama.  However, it sounds like you mostly kept your cool and were able to enjoy your day.  FWIW, I think your photos are completely AMAZING.  You look gorgeous, you both look so happy, and I think your photographer is an amazing artist. I can only hope to have such beautiful ones; I’d hang any of those up on the wall! (Well, if they were me, not you, that would be creepy!) I am curious why you want ones of just you? If you really want them, I’d say do a bridal shoot, but I don’t know how that would work in terms of hair, makeup, etc.

Post # 14
77 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 1998

Wow pretty girl! You look amazing. I’m sorry your Mother-In-Law had to go nutty on your wedding day. Don’t blame yourself for anything. Your Mother-In-Law took it upon herself to try to stir up trouble and you (and your rock-star mother) handled it beautifully. I can’t think of a more hectic day than your wedding. I speak from experience– I didn’t even get to eat my cake! Bottom line, you married the love of your life and you have some beautiful pictures to remind you of all the wonderful things that day. I’m sure most people will only have positive recollections– and you should too. Congratulations!

Post # 15
613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

First off congratulations on your marriage!!

I’m really sorry what happened to you, sweetie! It’s unforunate on how your Mother-In-Law acted towards you and your husband. However, I think you did a terrific job in not letting this situation get the best of your day with your new hubby. I understand completely that this has left a somewhat negative memory, but try not to let this eat away at your happiness and  cherish all the fond memories of marrying your best friend! 

Your photographers truly captured the happiness and love that is shared between you and your husband. I would’ve never have guessed you were experiencing problems that day with how beautiful you looked! If you want more photos of yourself, then I think  you should schedule a bridal shoot! ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 16
2118 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Baby #2 due Sep 2017

I hope time will heal what happened.. your photos are just stunning. I can only hope my own photos will be half as good as these!! The love you both share really radiates out!!!!

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