Post # 1
I’m trying to find a day-of coordinator, and I can’t seem to justify the costs. Part of me wants to find a great, well reputable planner. The other part of me kinda thinks that with the way I’m planning, I really just need someone there to put out my centerpieces and favors, and pack up my stuff afterwards.
Anyone else in the same position? I’m not even sure I need a wedding planner, since I have a venue coordinator and a separate caterer (and catering coordinator/manager). I also don’t necessarily want to ask my friends/bridesmaids to bear this burden! I want them to enjoy the wedding, not put them to work!
So, any suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
Post # 3
- Wedding: March 2005 - Westside Loft, New York
Can you maybe ask the venue coordinator for some referrals, and talk to past brides to see how involved they were on the wedding day to see if you need a planner?
Some venue coordinators are awesome. Others not so much. Talking to past brides may help you with your decision. Good luck! 🙂
Post # 4
I agree with Mrs. Bee!
When I got married (to my x) at our church, we had a wedding coordinator already provided to us. She was awesome! She had everything set up just right, candles lit, and was a drill sergeant having everybody doing everything perfectly!
My florist at the reception kinda kicked everything into place before hand and rocked it! He is awesome (if you live in Memphis, check out The English Garden in Germantown area..Ivy is the BEST florist!!!) He scoped out the site first, knew what would exactly go where and it was effortless for him.
I also am lucky to have several relatives who are designers who can quickly work a room in about 10 minutes flat and have everything tweaked just right. No real need for a day-of for me, but if I am super busy, I might think of it.
If you opt out of a day-of, who in your entourage/family is good at design or being able to pull off putting centerpieces out, lighting candles, and telling florists just where things need to go?
Post # 5
Hiya. We’re in the same boat as you. Our venue co-ordinator is fabulous so I have no doubt the reception will go smoothly. Where we start worrying is having someone there to make sure the church will be decorated and like you, to ensure the centerpieces etc are put out. I have no cousins nor aunts/uncles to help out with the decorating and I definitely don’t want to burden our guests.
In the end, I think we’ll be better off to hire someone for the day. One advice I got a from a former co-worker (she was the MOG a few years ago) was the price of a co-ordinator will be worth it! Just knowing someone else will be there to make sure of the little things will surely give some piece of mind.
One thing I will say is, as mrsbee has said, is to get some referrals. LOL the last thing you want is to have a co-ordinator you’ll have to stress about on the day of your wedding.
Post # 6
You can also find a wedding planner who is looking for events to build her portfolio. I personally have offered free DOC services to build mine.
Post # 7
I would recommend interviewing a couple to see what they bring to the table exactly. If you need recommendations, send me a message. I would highly recommend both wedding coordinators we interviewed in Chicago. We went with the full planning package because it was what we needed. The day of coordinators don’t just work the day of; they do so much work ahead of time with schedules and stuff. I can’t imagine what our lives would be like. I don’t need to worry about what time anyone is arriving or making sure everyone knows where they have to be or coordinating anything.
Post # 8
i was beyond organized for our wedding, yet, i still feel as if my DOC was worth every penny. i did not stress or worry about 1 single thing. she was always ahead of me and took care of everything…my family and friends loved her too!
Post # 9
Hi guys, I am a Chicago wedding photographer and I really recommend that you get a day-of person. Please know that in most cases it is worth the money. They handle all the headaches which can occur so you don’t have to. From the bouquets arriving with the wrong flowers to missing chair covers, your day of person will handle anything that isn’t going smoothly. You (and your mom) should enjoy your day, not be stressing the details. :))
Post # 10
Thanks for all the suggestions! I think I have to sit down with my venue coordinator and my caterer to see what they’ll cover first. Then I might sit down with a wedding planner afterwards to see what a planner can add to the day.
Post # 11
- Wedding: September 2007 - Hyatt Lodge, Oak Brook IL
Hi Miss Creme Brulee!
I am a Chicago wedding planner by trade who handles a lot of day-of coordination, so I’d like to toss in my $0.02 if you are still undecided! Hopefully you don’t mind the professional input 🙂
A number of brides I have talked to say that all they want is someone to show up, set up, and direct people, and therefore cannot stomach the idea of paying for a reputable wedding planner/day-of coordinator. But there is actually a lot more involved on the back-end to ensure a seamless event! A good day-of coordinator does not just show up without doing her homework! From my perspective, I charge what I charge because I still need to maintain the integrity of my services and quality of work. And in order to do so, there are steps on my end that cannot be skipped, such as attending the final walkthrough at the venue, reviewing all of the contracts, reviewing and providing input on the timeline, confirming all vendors the week of the wedding, coordinating the rehearsal, etc. All this on top of the 8-12 hours of actual on-site work on the wedding day, and I always bring an assistant.
Also, you should feel comfortable asking your DOC for advice on things such as vendor referrals, etiquette and ESPECIALLY the itinerary. After all, they have much experience and many weddings under their belt and chances are, this is most likely your first and last wedding (or second in some cases! 🙂
The other thing I hear from brides is that they want to ask their friends or relatives to assist with the setup. (also see Mrs.Penguin’s recent post!) In regards to that idea, I can certainly relate – I considered the same for my own wedding a few years ago! However in the end, I hired a pro because I did not want to burden my friends and family, or to have them miss out on the whole guest experience that I was working so hard to achieve! Hiring a professional coordinator is like getting insurance for your wedding. Because chances are, the amount you are investing for your wedding day probably COULD buy you a car of some sort… which you would never drive without insurance! And I’m guessing that the rest of the vendors you have hired are professionals – so shouldn’t the person entrusted to pull the whole event together also be an experienced professional?
Ok, hopefully I have given you a different perspective, feel free to PM me if you have any further questions 🙂
Post # 12
- Wedding: July 2008 - Oceanfront lawn and tent
I’ve said it so many times, but I’ll keep saying it- the money we spent on our DOC was by far the best money we spent on our wedding. I would be kicking myself so hard right now if I (or my mom, best friends, aunt, whoever) had had to deal with any of the headaches we encountered on our seemingly well-planned day (we had a hailstorm and electricity outage at our outdoor wedding). Also, I’ve stepped in to help at friends weddings where there was no DOC, and no matter what anyone wants to tell you, it TOTALLY takes away from the fun/experience your friend/family member should be having. There is a reason why (most) wedding planners get paid well- it is a TON of work!
Post # 13
If you still need a DOC…I am offering my services for practically free of charge. Although I am not YET a very well known coordinator, I do have experience, and references if you feel the need to check. I am beginning a new business and am hoping to build up my portfolio. Please e mail me at [email protected] if you are at all interested, I will let you know more information.
Post # 14
On the same line as crebre80: One of our potential coordinators is new to the industry, so her prices are way low. I would suggest doing some research and finding students or fresh wedding faces to be a DOC. You’ll get all the benefits for cheaper, and they get a chance to build up their portfolios.
Post # 15
Having had a wedding without a coordinator, I can speak from experience and say the little money you will spend on someone will be well worth it. We’ve experienced coordinators and currently in the process of building our portfolio so we’d love to help you out. Our prices are negotiable and we’re flexible in order to meet your needs. We’d love to hear from you!
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Post # 16
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