(Closed) Wedding planner dates our wedding photographer (not disclosed upfront)

posted 5 years ago in Reception
Post # 2
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

Wait until you have your pics before you say anything? 

That’s really unfortunate that she did a terrible job 🙁

Post # 3
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Honey bee

oceansbride:  what issues were there? This post is a tad too vague to give a lot of advice. 

But as far as the pics, considering their relationship, I would probably wait until after I got the pics to confront the crappy coordinator. Yes I’m sure you have a contract with the photographer, and yes I’m sure you could sue if he withheld your pictures, but who really wants to go through all that?! Best of luck!

Post # 5
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Honey bee

oceansbride:  could you write an anonymous review on the knot and wedding wire?? Without giving away too much detail where she would know it was you?

Post # 8
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Honey bee

oceansbride:  ugh. This is a tough one. As bad as she sounds, I think you should write reviews on her to warn other brides. You don’t want anyone else to go through what you did. As far as the pictures, look over that contract, IN DETAIL. If he threatens to not give you the pics or anything like that, contact a lawyer immediately. Keep record of all conversations between you and her, and between you and him. Try and get everything possible in writing and not verbally. Good luck and sorry you’re going through this. 

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 6 months ago by  BMoreBecc.
Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Write the review in a doc now but wait to post it until after you get your pictures.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Oh geeze, I would wait for the pictures and then do the reviews. If her photographer bf is telling you to make it “right by her, the vendor”  the day off, there is no telling what poor work he’ll do with your pictures. Get them first and then review the heck out of them. Bloody hell they sound like nightmares, and I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. 

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2015

 Agree with GearBride. Why not just write everything up and wait to officially post?

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Wite the letter but DO NOT MAIL till after you get pix.

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