(Closed) Wedding planner silence.

posted 9 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I can imagine with the flu she’s not very productive but there are some things she can do over the phone or my email that require very little strength so that would make me nervous too.  And, being sick shouldn’t mean she can’t communicate with you at all, I’d want to be kept abreast of everything, even if there’s nothing to do, I wanna know that.  Maybe just shoot her an email and tell her your concerns.  I think she’ll understand.  And maybe ask if its alright that you contact the vendors directly if need be, but be sure to let her know of everything discussed if you do.  Having a wedding planner is tough because its helpful but you give up the control.

Post # 4
2066 posts
Buzzing bee

I’d call/email the Wedding Party and tell her you are getting to wedding crunch time and you really want to touch base and figure out what will be done and when.  Then ask about the specific things you are concerned about.  Good luck!

Post # 5
1120 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I don’t think there would be anything wrong with contacting her to find out what’s up. Being a wedding planner, she would be used to bride planning anxiety. It’s odd that a family flu would cause her to lose contact with you for weeks at a time though – did I misunderstand that part? 

Post # 7
768 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Oooh! I’m in a similar situation. Also in Kentucky, wedding in Texas. My Mom finally chased down the Wedding Party to meet with us while I’m home next week. This Wedding Party did my sister’s wedding so I’m super confident in her abilities but it’s really hard to trust her when you can’t see the progress. My suggestion would be to hassle her into getting you a proposal or something. Perhaps a contract soon?

Post # 8
1765 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Glad you finally got to contact her and everything’s worked out! The stress of worrying about how someone else is handling it is exactly why I’m just doing a DOC!

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