- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
So let me go ahead and get this out the way- no I am not paying her. At least not upfront. She is my friend’s girlfriend who decided she wanted to get into the business and needed to begin somewhere and I was getting married and too broke for a $1,500 co ordinator. Since Dec/Jan she has found a photographer and done the Save-The-Date Cards and ordered the invitations. I have hand crafted everything, found all the vendors, and even written out a day of schedule. It is less than 60 days from the wedding and she is MIA. No returned e mails or phone calls.
I am not worsome (a bug a boo) and I have no problem giving her something after the wedding aka love offering or a nice gift. She knows this, but damn…. I called my friend and found out they no longer go together. I hope she isn’t that trifiling to not talk to me anymore because of issues with him.
Bees, what to do? I can’t direct the wedding myself! My mom and sister (MOH) will be busy with me. This is not fair! Should I scrap her and just hope it all goes well?