(Closed) Wedding planning stress is making me have cold feet

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Guys honestly dont care as much about weddings, but you should not allow your mother to be so pushed, especially of your Fiance is not religous. Your mom sounds like a momzilla! It is not her wedding, it is yours and your FI’s. My fiance doesn’t want to write his vows, because he doesn’t feel eloquent enough, so I am writing a shared set that is just for us, but that we will both say. Some men don’t cry,  but you will still have a lovely picture of him seeing you walk up the aisle. Make sure to tell the photographer that you want that shot first. 


I agree with your Fiance, a song during the sand ceremony would be rediculous. I went to a wedding that had like 3 full length songs and 2 rreadingss. IIT took forever and was a little boring, and the bride and groom were obviously feeling awkward, just standing there waiting for the song to finish. There are lovely sand ceremony readings that would be much more appropriate. 


You have not mentioned a single thing you want that was your idea and not your mothers. 


You really need to talk to your Fiance about all this, and in an open way. This is your wedding combined. He gave in to you on BMs, give on to not having an hour long ceremony. Also, reevaluate your wedding so that you can have what you want without needing money from your mother. You might benefit from some pre-marital counseling.

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