- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Why when people are having weddings does everyone immediatly have such a bad attitude? I’m not just saying this because I am now planning a wedding of my own. I’ve only been engaged a month. But, every wedding I’ve ever been to people feel like they need to judge all the details. they need to judge why so and so’s kids werent invited, and judge that the flowers were fake and judge that the bar didn’t have a certain kind of scotch.. or they make snarks about how its an hour drive and how they had to go to a shower and to the wedding and blah blah blah. i just don’t understand. why all the hate?
i rarely hear people say they love weddings. and how much fun the dj was. or how good the food is. why do we continue to plan weddings and waste our time when no one appreciates whats really happening? I’ve never heard anyone say how honored they are that they were invited to witness two people on the happiest day of their life.
i don’t really know why i’m posting this. i guess i just wanted to vent for a minute.