- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I’m new to weddingbee’s and I am very desperate to get some things off my chest, I hope someone out there can help!
My husband and I are newlyweds (since June2012) and so far we are really enjoying married life together. The problem is I can’t let go of some of the things that happened at our weddng reception. Later on when the evening reception had commenced an arguement brook out between my husband’s dad and one of my friend’s boyfriend. It really upset my husband and as a result we were the ones who ended up arguing upstairs in our honeymoon suit! We were both quite drunk by that time and said some really horrible things to eachother and at one point my brother and friend intervened. We never said goodbye to any of the guests as by that time it was late and I cried myself to sleep. The next morning we were both fine with each other, but I felt really embarrassed, upset and ashamed about the night before, plus it really upset my brother, which made it worse. I just can’t seem to let any of this go from my head.
I have read many stories about wedding day regrets, such as wishing the flowers were different or the photographer but have yet to hear of any stories where the bride and groom are arguing on their special night as husband and wife.
I wish I could turn back time and change this horrible episode that occured on our special day because I dont really know how to let go and move on. Someone please help!!