(Closed) wedding security????

posted 9 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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2889 posts
Sugar bee

I think it would be reasonable to discretely ask them to look out for this person and ask them if they would feel comfortable asking said person to leave. I don’t think it is reasonale to ask guests to hang out by the door and act as security guards at your wedding. If you have serious concerns which would require a “bouncer” all night, don’t ask a guest, hire a professional. You could be putting FI’s friends in a very awkard place and they will certainly not enjoy the evening if they are focused on watching the door all night.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m going to have security at my wedding as well due to any wedding crashers that might decide to show up. i agree with the most recent comment, As long as its done discretely and there isn’t a big show about them being there I think it’s totally fine. And if you think you’ll have serious concerns then hire a pro 🙂

Post # 5
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873 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Discrete is good.  The last thing you want (apart from a problem with safety), is for yourself and others to be more concerned about security issues than enjoying the wedding itself. 

Post # 6
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768 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

My venue requires that we have security for every 100 guests because we’re serving alcohol. I don’t think it’s weird, I think it’s SMART! Here’s hoping that person doesn’t drop in…(:

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Mrs. Peach, I also have several people from my past I am afraid will show up and we are having security (or a bouncer and my Fiance calls it) as well. Also anyone in any sort of contact with those people will not recieve an invitation so that they can’t find out the address and crash.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree with having security for your own peace of mind and safety. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would try to hire a professional to do the security for your wedding.  If you’re inviting your FI’s friends as guests, that wouldn’t be much fun for them to have to keep an ‘eye’ out for this person and/or stay near the entrances/exits.  But, I do think if you’re worried, it’s a wise investment.

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