(Closed) Wedding Set Confusion?!

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
Member
216 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

People would assume it’s your wedding band.  If getting a lot of questions and having to explain yourself would bother you, I would wait to wear it until after you are married.  Then you can wear it as a right-hand ring, stacked with your other rings, as a stand-in when you don’t want to wear your grandma’s for whatever reason, have the stones re-set into some other jewelry, or sell it. 🙂

Post # 4
Hostess
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

I have two wedding bands as well (although one isn’t an hierloom like yours) and I won’t wear either of them until we are married. It tends to encourage too many questions and too much confusion.

Post # 5
Member
64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

What an amazing keepsake! You should consider setting the stones into a right-hand ring or necklace. You can pass it along to your children someday without giving up your beautiful engagement/wedding rings 🙂

Post # 6
Member
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@lafala: That’s the same suggestion I would make!

Personally, I would feel too weird wearing any kind of band with my e-ring, regardless of whether or not you plan to wear it as your actual band.  If it were me I would hold off on wearing it until after the wedding.  Or, as the pp said, have one of them made into a right had ring or other piece of jewelry.

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