(Closed) wedding shower dillema!!!! (lots of questions)

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1269 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

My personal opinion:

1. You don’t plan the shower.  It should be your Maid/Matron of Honor but could be a bridemaid or your mom or your Future Mother-In-Law or an aunt…

2. One should head it up with help/input from the others.

3. You don’t pay for it.  The planner does and can get help from the other BM’s or your mom if she offered but typically it’s just the planner and/or BM’s.

4. If they don’t plan the shower then you really shouldn’t which sadly could mean you don’t have one.  It’s probably time to mention it to your Maid/Matron of Honor.  Say something like you are just trying to plan the timing of things before the wedding.  Worst case, you could ask your mom.

5. I think I answered this in #4.

I’m not sure how to tell the other girls about the bachelorette party.  You don’t think they will know?  What kind of party is your Maid/Matron of Honor planning?

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