(Closed) Wedding singer…no thanks?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
66 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

I think it’s pretty simple: you DON’T have him (or anyone else) sing at YOUR wedding.

Make sure that your soon-to-be hubby is also on board with this, and stick like glue to what you said about not liking vocal music at weddings. There is nothing wrong with that, and for him to insist that he is singing at your wedding (especially during your ceremony) is pretty pushy and while it may be well-intended, it’s a little rude. This ain’t the Best Man show, it’s your wedding vows.

That he would suggest that he’s singing so that he doesn’t have to give you a gift? I mean, good for you for not being focused on the material aspect of things, but as a singer, and as someone who has sung in many a friend’s wedding (only when ASKED) – EW.

Good luck!

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