(Closed) Wedding Song Drama

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

well if he wont play it… find someone that will!

Post # 4
1269 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

You can play it at both of the weddings.  No one will remember.  It’s not like you are trying to do the same rock the reception.  I just went to a wedding in August and June and I have no idea which songs were played at any time.  And I was Maid/Matron of Honor in both!

Post # 5
1482 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Umm… you can’t claim a “song”. 

Your sister is being extremely immature… I realize that more than one person can have emotionally attachment to a song, but it’s not as though this song is not meaningful to you.  Is she even engaged?  Planning a wedding? 

I would continue to remain light-hearted about the entire situation, and continue with your plans to use the song of your choice.  If and when your sister decides to get married, I’m sure no one except the two of you will remember what song was played and no one would notice that she used it too. 


Post # 6
5822 posts
Bee Keeper

Are you bothered that she will play it at her wedding too?  Or is she saying that ONLY she will play it at her wedding?  I guess as long as you get to have it played at your wedding, that you should let it go.  It sucks that she likes it so much and it REALLY sucks that she’s “claiming” the song, but if you will still play it at your wedding and it still means a lot to you, then forget her.  You can call her a copycat and just ignore her.

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