(Closed) wedding talk with the EX wife……

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Holy run-on sentance Batman! ;P

It doesn’t really seem that weird to me, it sounds like she wasn’t being hostile or anything.
I’d talk with FI’s ex about wedding stuff if she was getting married, too.
I’d mostly be wanting to let her know that I am happy that she’s happy!

Post # 4
556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t think it’s weird since you guys are cool with each other. I’m friends with DHs ex so we talk about all kinds of stuff.

Post # 5
1040 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@HisNightOwl2014:  That would be a little weird for me, no matter how amicable and long ago the divorce was.

…but I guess as long as she’s cool with it, and started the conversation, I’d just roll with it 😉

Post # 6
2958 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Who…no periods.

Anyway, she seems cool. If you’re friendly with each other I don’t see why not.

Post # 9
5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@HisNightOwl2014:  Yeah…Mr. 99 and his ex had called it quits almost 13 years before I showed up…they were young, his Dad forced them and it was not a good idea…so yeah, we invited them to our BBQ reception, we were invited to her wedding…no biggie….just because they used to be together and aren’t anymore doesn’t mean they aren’t interesting and nice people now…

Post # 12
40 posts
  • Wedding: February 2014

If this were the only problem I had with my FI’s ex-wife, I’d be doing a happy dance (she just found out we’re engaged, but enough thread jacking…)

I can see how you’re weirded out but it’s nice that’s she’s being supportive and friendly. Is the Ex talking about her wedding dress when she got married to your Fiance, or is she re-married and talking about that wedding?

Post # 14
400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@HisNightOwl2014:  Maybe she wanted to make sure they were different so you didn’t end up in an awkward situation where a relative of his approaches you at the wedding and says “Oh, that looks just like his first wife’s dress!” Because that would be even worse than talking to her about wedding stuff. 🙂 Or maybe she’s just curious about the wedding because her kids will be there (I assume) so she’s interested in what it will be like.

Post # 15
2196 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I dunno, I’m a chatter, and an over-sharer. I could see myself in her shoes being excited about it for you, and going on about it.  I’ll talk wedding with just about anyone, and if I get along with them all the more better. She probably wasn’t thinking it would weird you out.

Post # 16
628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013


+ 1 

if she’s comfortable chatting about you marrying her ex, that’s a great sign I think. 

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