(Closed) Wedding Time changed, he won’t tell his family!!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t see why it matters, you aren’t sending out invitations for months and months and they won’t make plans until it gets closer.

Post # 4
Member
962 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yeah, the wedding isn’t for a year…  I wouldn’t stress about it now.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

The invites will let them know when you send them 🙂

Post # 6
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4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yeah I agree with the PP. I don’t think I have even told people what time my wedding is, that’s what the invitation is for! I wouldn’t stress about this.

Post # 7
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598 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

And from personal experience, most guys are just lazy when it comes to those kinds of things!!  But I agree, let them make their plans when the invitations are sent out.  They probably won’t even notice that the time was changed because they probably didn’t take note of the 1:00 time…

 

Post # 9
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee

Well in that case he needs to at least tell his mom.  No need for her to be worrying herself about filling a time gap that no longer exists.

Post # 10
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would let his mom know of the change then.  She can tell people if they ask.  She shouldn’t be planning anything yet though since it’s your responsibility not hers.

Post # 11
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4465 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wouldn’t worry too much about the one family.  I’m going to doubt they would have gone if it was at 1 or 4.  But I would tell his mom though.

Post # 12
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612 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

So next time she brings up wanting to schedule something in the dead time between the ceremony and reception then just casually oh Fiance didn’t tell you we were able to get the 4pm time we wanted so now we don’t have to plan anything and our timeline will fit better.  I wouldn’t worry about the other guests as it isn’t close enough for them to start making concrete plans, but if his mom is helping to plan she needs to be in the loop.

Post # 13
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2395 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I don’t think you are crazy for wondering.  You already know that there is another family event going on the day of your wedding.  If his side of the family knows now, that might make things easier for planning his cousins graduation party.  His fam could be planning a graduation party for later that day thinking wedding attendees could travel to the grad party…but, if you moved the wedding to a later time, that might create some complications.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Agree with DaisyLynn- tell them now, but make it casual… because they WILL ask you later about when you knew.  Unless you are comfortable with lying that could result in some aggravation if people have planned parties and such in the meantime.  Congrats for getting the slot you wanted.

Post # 15
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166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I think its weird he won’t tell his family. If his mom is planning things than he needs to call her like tonight and tell her. AND if an entire family will be unable to go I think the more time you give the better. Nothing like waiting a few months for the wedding for 5 people to find out the trip they planned wont happen.

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