(Closed) Wedding Tragedy

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1765 posts
Buzzing bee

I am sorry.  Just do what you can do, without stressing yourself out.  Maybe have shorter visits with your father.  Try to make peace with yourself about his negativity if you can.  With the time you have for your wedding, just take it at an easy pace, and make sure to enjoy this time with your Fiance, get what you need to done, like the ceremony and reception venue held, and caterer, photographer, if you need to soon, and then enjoy your time, and taking the time to leisurely do the other things.  I wish you well-my prayers for your father and friend, and you. 

Post # 4
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678 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Hi hun, I am truly sorry to learn of the unfortunate news…you, your family, and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.  I’m sure that you’re dealing with a lot…be encouraged, physicially and emotionally…*hugs* 

Please make the most of your time with them, as well as your wedding planning…don’t take this on by yourself, smooches and blessings!

Post # 5
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90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so sorry!! That’s a lot to deal with, so as the other posters have said, be kind and gentle to yourself. And please limit your time with your Dad if he’s being mean. I know it’s hard, but maybe if he starts in on you, just say “ok, Dad, time for me to go” If you make your visits short and frequent, hopefully you won’t have to hear too much bad stuff, but at the same time, you’ll get to spend time with your dad.

These articles might help you: http://apracticalwedding.com/2010/05/wedding-graduate-morgan-on-weddings-in-the-face-of-death/

and http://apracticalwedding.com/2010/01/wedding-planning-in-face-of-serious/

 

Good luck!

Post # 6
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15 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am so sorry that you’ve been dealt such sad news at a time that is supposed to be the happiest in your life.  I can’t even imagine….

I, too am a suffer of anxiety and drepression and understand how the impact of planning a wedding can take its toll physically and mentally.  I know you are not looking for advice, but I’d like to ask if you have the ability to find a therapist to meet with to help you through this?  You may be able to learn some effective coping mechanisims for dealing with the negativity. 

Congratulations on you engagement and keep strong!!  Best wishes!!

Post # 8
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2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Air Guitar Goddess: I’m so sorry that you’re dealing with all these things and wish there were some kind of magic word which would take this pain away. I will say that I love your name though. Again, that doesn’t help, but cyber hugs.

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