Post # 1
Okay, soo my FI’s Mom wants me to use her Mother’s veil and I’m okay with this. I find it to be a complete honor, but I don’t want my Mom to be offended. I know she will be because that’s the kind of person she is. If I don’t use the veil I will feel awful because I feel as if them making this offer is kind of like them accepting me as their own. I don’t know what to do! Someone please help! :/
Post # 3
Why don’t you talk to your mom first about your veil options, without bringing up the topic of the FMIL’s veil, and see if she has any suggestions. If she doesn’t bring up her own veil. or her mother’s veil, then say that have another option. That way it’s not like you are shooting down her personal veil, so she shouldn’t have a reason to be upset. Maybe you could offer to wear your mother’s old pin or something significant to her so you are wearing something special from both sides of the family?
Post # 4
@adnama: Her veil is Red, our theme is orange and grey. She brought that up when i first got engaged, she wanted me to wear her dress. She didn’t wear any pins or anything at her wedding. It’s a hard situation with her.