(Closed) weddings weddings weddings =[ i want my turn! vent/teenytiny victory dance

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
488 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Nope!  Sometimes guys need a little “push” in the right direction… hehe.  Sometimes it can be so frusterating waiting, but who knows… Maybe he has something in the works all ready.  Have you guys discussed a “timeline” of sorts?


Post # 5
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I know how you feel, because I get the “when are you getting married” question too. Only I am engaged. I just haven’t gotten to actually making plans and setting a date yet.

SO I really don’t have any excuses other than being organizationally challenged, LOL. But people still ask, and it still makes me feel like there is something wrong with me, too.

Here’s the thing, every couple has their own time line  and own priorities, and you two will get married when it is the right time for you, even if it is hard to wait. You may be ahead of these other couples in other parts of life, but even so, it’s not a race. Just be content that one day you will get yours 🙂

Post # 6
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I love it when they get a taste for those questions! I get them all the time – I have been getting them since 4 months in to our relationship! (We are nearly at 4 years!!) He has been getting it quite a bit lately too! Apparently his entire cricket team are now on his case too!

I dont think you are mean for enjoying it a little 🙂

Post # 7
1513 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

hahaha not mean at all… its nice that you got a night off from it and he had to field the inquiries instead! maybe it will light a fire under him…

Post # 8
220 posts
Helper bee

You’re not mean! That question should be directed to the guys; they are the ones who control the answer!  And you’ve got my sympathy with the recent weddings- I can totally relate to the feeling of embarrassment and worrying about what other people are thinking.  


Post # 9
316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Definitely not mean, it’s about time he got to see what it feels like! That would be frustrating to go to friends’ weddings after dating so much longer, I feel you on that. It does not mean there’s anything wrong with you though, and you’ll just know eachother that much better come wedding time. I like to tell myself that means us “waiters” will be better as married couples since we have more time to improve our relationships ahead of time =) And maybe getting all the questions addressed to him will help encourage him to take the next step!

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