(Closed) Weddings/Engagements are taking over my brain!!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

haha sort of.

i have this thing where everytime i can’t get ahold of my bf i assume he’s talking to my parents about proposing 😛

and he’s stopped giving me surprises because every one of them lately has been him proposing in my mind.

and i have the same thing – i know it’s not happening anytime soon, so i don’t get why i keep expecting it.

 

but hm. red right and blue? maybe that’s a sign that you’ll get a proposal under the fireworks on july 4th? haha who knows?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

Totally and completely the same here.. I have dreamt about him proposing and getting married. Since we know we want to get married next year.. I actually have been dress shopping a bit and found one Im in love with. Unfortunately Mr. Tee was layed off on Friday so I know that we are going to have to postpone things a bit, and yes its driving me insane waiting.. but I am just trying to keep in my mind I get to spend the rest of my life with this man so eventhough now It is SOOOOOOO hard to wait.. it will be worth it.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

Haha you are in good company!! I have dreams about boyfriend proposing pretty frequently and we are deff nowhere close to a proposal — so these dreams are not helpin’ me out!! The dream about your red and blue glitter dress literally made me LOL …. I would suggest not making THAT dream come true!! 😉

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

It’s called engagement brain. I have had it for a while now, maybe like 4 or 5 months lol

I had a dream that I overheard my bf telling someone he was gonna propose to me. I just hope it happens soon lol, i dont know how much more I can take

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am literally going through the same thing… only my Boyfriend or Best Friend is toturing me (his name is Jason too!).  He already has the ring and i know where it is and everything… he just won’t give it to me!  LOL  We have a date and I really really want to start planning and I can’t until we’re engaged.  It’s driving me mad!  I have crazy wedding dreams and catch myself at work on wedding sites and grrr…

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

My SO’s name is Jason too!! I guess guys named Jason are known for dragging their feet?? LOL!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Im having this problem too..I have had sooo many engagement dreams!! IT SUCKS to wake up from those 🙁

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yes, I also had a dream where Fiance just shoved a ring at me with no pomp or circumstance. I also obsessed over weddings and engagements the entire time we dated which was only 1.5 years before we got engaged. I definitely did it to myself though, it’s not like everyone around me was getting engaged/married.

It’s hard, but try to focus on something else. Like what you’re going to wear to the next fun event you attend..

Post # 13
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Busy bee

I went engagement/wedding crazy about 4 months ago and it was seriously all I could think or talk about. But for some reason for the last month or so I haven’t been so intoxicated with engagement/wedding talk. I think that I told myself that it will happen when it happens and there is no rush. I had some health problems pop up last month and Boyfriend or Best Friend and I are much more concerned about getting me better and taken care of now. Boyfriend or Best Friend is also moving into a new apartment this weekend so we have been shopping for furniture and such lately.

However,……I am going to the Running of the Brides next month with my cousin to help her find a dress and I’m finding it hard to fight the urge to look for my dress…yeah I already have an idea of the one I want so we’ll see if I can resist.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

@Pec.. I may not go with the crowd here on weddingbee.. but honestly if your going to the running of the brides and you find a dress your in love with.. Why not get it? If you love it and the price is right why not?!? If when you get engaged, you decide you dont like it anymore.. there are so many outlets (WB, ebay, etc..) that you can sell it on.

Post # 15
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Busy bee

@TheRen: I will most likely look for “the Dress” but I don’t know how my cousin and her mom,my aunt, and friends will feel about me getting a dress too… I think its a good idea because I can save a fortune plus my tax return just came in and it’s just screaming “Spend me on your dream dress!” Do you think I would be out of line looking for my dress as well as hers?

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I had a dream last night that my Boyfriend or Best Friend got me a plastic ring with the tiniest little diamond on it, but the funny thing is, I had picked out the ring and in my dream I remember thinking….”hmmm…why did I think this looked good before” 

lol!

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