(Closed) wedding/shower gift confusion

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’m not coming up with anything better than what you did.  I think having it in another room and then bringing it out if needed sounds like a good way to go. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Maybe your FI’s mom could ask her? I’ve done this for a friend.She could call her and say something like, "Oh, LadyBug LOVED the Calphalon pots you go her, that is so thoughtful. Are you still coming to her shower? Would you like me to make sure she brings the pots so everyone can see your lovely gift?"

That way, YOU don’t have to ask, but Grandma knows you love them and knows that you want everyone else to see them!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I think it helps get you off the hook. That way, you’ll know whether or not to bring them, and she knows that you really like them 🙂

She might’ve meant them as a shower gift, and they had to send them to you or something.

Today is my "good idea" day!

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