Post # 17
It all depends because it sounds like he smokes it quite a bit, that most likely can have a bug impact more then drinking as the weed stays in the system much longer.
Post # 18
For sure. We’ll see what happens this month (this week is my FW, fingers crossed!) but if we are still having issues down the road, then we need to discuss.
I know he cares just as much as I do and he would stop if I asked. And I don’t really know how much he’s smoking. It’s maybe 4 times a year, but I don’t know how much during those times. I’ve never smoked so I don’t know how you measure what a lot is. I know that he doesn’t buy any for himself and will only smoke if offered.
Post # 19
@ColoradoGirl: I would at least ask to keep it very minimal. Since he doesn’t do it often he shouldn’t need to smoke all day to catch a buzz.
A couple hits in the morning and a couple at night should be fine? I would talk to him about it and see what you both think would be a reasonable amount.