(Closed) Weeknight Wedding

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
184 posts
Blushing bee

In your unique situation, I think it is perfectly okay to have a wedding on Tuesday if that is what works for you and your family.

There is no rule, that I am aware of, that would make this socially unacceptable!!

I think it is sweet of you to want your family to witness this event and how better to cap a perfect weekend of your graduation.


On the wedding and your exit—exit the same way you come in, assuming your guests will already be seated, as if for dinner!  Or don’t…..following the vows/pronouncement, perhaps you or the groom could thank your guests for coming & sharing that time.  

I really don’t think there is a wrong answer here. 

It will be a sweet, intimate affair surrounded by those that love you!

Post # 4
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think what you’re doing is fine, as long as you’re understanding that some people just won’t be able to make it. But there would have been the same issue with a Destination Wedding.

We’re also doing a restaurant wedding. Our plan is to disappear for 20 min or so of the cocktail hour to snap some family photos (we’re getting most of them out of the way with first look). Then we’ll infiltrate the cocktail hour, mingle for a few minutes, and then as the guests are seated we’ll gather in a side room and do formal introductions. It might be a little awkward, but our whole event is 4 hours and I want to enjoy the party.

Post # 5
6247 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

When I first read the title I thought “oh no…” but now that I read your post I realize that it makes perfect sense for you to get married when everyone is there for your graduation.  It happens to fall on a weeknight but it sounds like everyone will be traveling anyways so they won’t have to worry about work or school or extracurricular activities.  You’ll probably get a nice discount for a weeknight as well.

Post # 6
29 posts
  • Wedding: April 2012

We are also having our cermony/reception at a restaurant on a weekday (Monday – 5pm) just because it is out 3 year anniversary, and the site fees are 80% cheaper that way!  It seems to work well for your situation to have a weeknight wedding as many of your guests are already in town!  As a guest, I would feel that is being considerate, not selfish. 🙂



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