- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
hello again bees! first time here since my and SO’s 4th anni and the big music festival trip. it’s great to be back to the hive.
so, the amazing week has come and gone, and the question left unpopped. anyway, i was truly happy and i faithfully stuck to the “shut-it-up pact” till sep 1st. then a weird thing happened – i started having colorful dreams about the proposal and the following state of being engaged.
first of them was kinda odd. me and my bear are standing in front of the mountain lake covered in waterlilies and he says: “i talked to mom, she and Julia (SO’s sister) are totally coming for the wedding.” (they live abroad, quite far away, and plan to visit us next summer.) i ask him – “what wedding though?” and he answers: “are you kidding me? i proposed a year ago and you don’t even remember we’re getting married?” i look at my left hand and spot a beautiful white rock in yellow gold on my ring finger.
i wake up, pick up my jaw from the floor…that was the day the “shut-it-up pact” was broken. i told my SO about the dream. he gave me the widest smile and asked “wow..really?”.. that was pretty much it. =
in the second dream i saw he had the ring and he was teasing me in eric cartman’s voice – “neh-neh-neh, i won’t give it to you cos it’s not the right time yet”. and in the third one i was talking to a friend about how great it was to be engaged and how i adore my ring. yeah, it was the same ring from the first dream – a yellow gold solitaire and a little brilliant white stone. not what i wanted originally, but it was so friggin’ beautiful.
so i broke the pact again yesterday and told my SO i’ve been having engagement dreams lately. the answer gave me chills: “alright, i think i have to speed up a bit then”. and that cheshire smile again.
what a dork. 😀
do you bees have engagement dreams once in a while? share ’em! and the way they might have affected your waiting mood. 🙂