(Closed) Weird no show Aunt, and no explanation?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am so sorry this happened, people can just be cruel sometimes.  ((HUGS))

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

are you sure she’s alive and healthy? you said you have not heard from her AT ALL… could something bad have happened? i’m not saying i hope something bad happened to her, but if you don’t know… maybe find out before being angry?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

How do you know she is active on facebook?  

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

yea something sounds awful fishy here, seriously…  Scary.  Before jumping to judgement, if things were going as fabulous as you said they were, and then for her just to drop off like that makes no sense to me…

and I am with accorn how do you know she is still active on FB?  and if there is posts from her on FB how do you know they are from her?  Does she have a partner? 

this just sounds completely odd, considering the history:(

I also agree with the poster who said before getting angry, dig some more and find out wtf is going on, cuz something doesn’t sound right:( 

I am so sorry this happened:(  and how devistated your wife must have been.  I hope everything turns out okay and you guys will be in my prayers.

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Wow.

That is SO rude.

And I thought my Aunt sucked for not getting us a card….. 

 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@MsInterpret: Could it be possible that something happened to her and someone else got on her facebook?  I just think a poke is not enough to assume it’s her.  

If you could try to get in touch with her girlfriend maybe you can figure out what is going on…

Edit: I know this is the worst case scenerio and maybe something else is going on but have you checked obituaries?  

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Is the Aunt easily influenced by others?  Could the new girlfriend be manipulating her to cut off all ties with other people?

Is it possible to go and see about her, or send someone you trust to go and see about her?  Someone else could be accessing her FB account.  I have FB friends who have passed away yet there are still posts coming from their pages.  Obviously their passwords were shared or found.  

I guess what I’m trying to convey is that FB activity/inactivity is not necessarily the aunt.  Try very hard to find out some other way to check on her.  If worse comes to worse, you can call the police in the town where she lives, tell them what you told us, and ask them to go to her home and check on her.     

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s really really strange and scary. I hope she’s okay. I would email her and just say something along the lines of “We’re so sorry you weren’t able to make it to the wedding. We really missed you and we haven’t heard from you, so we wanted to make sure you were safe and okay. Please call or email us, we’re concerned about you since we haven’t been able to connect with you the past week.” I would leave the FB stuff out of it but express your concerns over her sudden disappearance.

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@MsInterpret: Thanks for the update. I was wondering what happened. Let us know if there are any more revelations.

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