(Closed) Weird Place at the Moment

posted 11 months ago in Home
Post # 31
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292 posts
Helper bee

Religion makes people do crazy sh!t

Is your Fiance signing a lease agreement? What happens if the wedding doesn’t happen and he’s living in your house? IMO combining finances/assets in this manner before marriage is riskier than simply moving in together but whatever lol. 

Post # 32
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545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I’d move the wedding wayyy up if I were you. I would not be interested in waiting over a year with this arrangement? Any specific reason for a long(ish) engagement?

Post # 33
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3022 posts
Sugar bee

graced :  I get that you guys have rules and standards that you would like to live by. Everyone is entitled to how they live their lives. 

My question is why does the wedding have to be 1-2 years away? 2019 or MAYBE 2020? Why maybe 2020? Why not move it up earlier in 2019? 

Or why did you buy a house so early if you dont have a wedding date and cant move out yet? Just trying to understand the reasoning behind it. 

I second pintrest app and slowly buying things on sale to help with the “nesting”. 

Post # 34
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1372 posts
Bumble bee

When you’re 50 years old will you still be living in the way your parents decide? 

Post # 35
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116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Courthouse weddings are cheap and quick. A year is a lot longer than a lot of people make it out to be. You do you, but when I could afford my own bills, my parents stopped having a say in my life like that. No way I’d wait that long and if you do I sure hope you have a lease agreement in case things don’t work out. 

Post # 36
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1007 posts
Bumble bee

Why cant you move in to the house and your fiance stay where he currently is?

Post # 37
Hostess
3190 posts
Sugar bee

Im getting a lot of flags on this thread. Closing this now.

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