(Closed) Weird situation…..at work…

posted 6 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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3151 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

@hiroshymatetrastar:  he’s the past! You should be over him! I guess you should just ignore him beyond a wave or something. Shouldn’t be a big deal. 

Post # 4
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1109 posts
Bumble bee

@hiroshymatetrastar:  Don’t let him think that you really notice him.  Be civil in passing and stay happy around him.  Don’t let him get to know who you are now. 🙂 

Post # 5
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5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@hiroshymatetrastar:  Time heals all wounds, fractures and weirdness….it’s ok and I get it…the first time I bumped into a old college flame I almost died, can’t explain why though, now after a few years and just being too busy to care, he’s one of my best friends….after all, we saw each other naked, what else is there?

Post # 6
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1980 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@hiroshymatetrastar:  Where do you work? I’m having trouble understanding your post. Why do bee’s hate your job?

Post # 10
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41 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You know, I think most people can get that “stomach drop” feeling when they see their ex’s…and it might be a bit more for you as you keep running into him at really, really bad times…poor you!  And now you have to work with him (maybe)…it could go a couple of ways…

1) You see him often and remember why your no longer together and compare him to your amazing Fiance

2) You see him often and begin to daydream about old feelings…rest assured, you can combat these thoughts with remembering not so good things about your past history together!

3)  You see him often and begin to daydream about old feelings and start to question your feelings…this might be the hardest one to cope with…remind yourself this probably has more to do with wedding nerves rather than him specifically…and challenge all of those negative thoughts

Regardless, you can handle this…you are planning your wedding…and that takes crazy coping skills 😉

and if I misread what you were asking…scratch all of this!

Post # 11
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4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh god, that is a terrible feeling!

I had the same feeling at work, I ran into an old coworker who is a contractor now. We had parted on horrible terms and now I see him weekly. But I made a point to be friendly in passing and we are on good terms now.

But you know what? This is actually a good thing, for you, its time you moved past this guy. Next time you see him, have a friendly chat, ask about his wife and how things arae going. Treat him like someone from HS you haven’t seen but only have a passing friendly interest in. You know, like those people from HS who friend request you on FB? LOL.

IT WILL BE OK. You both have new partners, are moving forward with your lives, things are good, REALLY! I PROMISE!

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