(Closed) Weird to wear 2 rings?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I do now…because I’m married. But I can’t say that it’s anywhere close to the realm of shocking that people would ask that question and be subsequently confused. Your hand is screaming “I’m married.” That’s literally the social message you’re projecting. It’s not wrong, but I’m not surprised that people would assume you’re married based on what they’re observing and I’ve honestly not known anyone to wear “non-wedding-band” rings on their ring finger unless they were already married and had a collection of stacking bands.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Why don’t you wear the eternity band as a RHR?  It sounds like a wedding set. 

My e-ring is the only ring I wear.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Catholic Church

My e-ring was all I wore on my left hand before getting married and before that I only ever wore a ring on that finger when I didn’t want to be hit on so I gave the impression that I was taken by wearing a blingy costume ring. I stack rings on my right hand sometimes though, but one of the prongs broke off of one of them and I haven’t gotten it fixed yet. Now that I’m married I wear 2 left hand rings and sometimes just my wedding band.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014 - Lizard Island, Australia

@Princesslaylaxo:  I do this too! I have a semi eternity band I bought myself for my birthday for my right hand but I’ve put on a bit of weight since so I keep wearing it on top of my engagement ring. I love how they look together. Nobody’s said anything but I don’t do it every day and i can sometimes squeeze it back onto my right hand some times

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I wear two rings, but it’s my wedding set and I’m married. I’m not surprised people think you’re married and when you say it isn’t a wedding band, they get confused.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I wear two rings on my left hand sometimes. I have my engagement ring, plus sometimes I wear my anniversary ring. Once I’m married I will wear all three rings on my left finger. No one has ever said anything about me wearing my 2 rings, and if they assume I’m married, so be it ! I wear my engagement ring first then the anniversary ring, so it’s not in the “wedding ring” spot (:

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Princesslaylaxo:  I could see how that would confuse people, but it’s your ring and your finger and rules are just arbitrary so you should do as you please.

Post # 12
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Helper bee

@Princesslaylaxo:  Just wear what you want! I’m not engaged or married but I wear rings on my left hand all the time! I have two eternity bands, a plain white gold I bought myself and my grandma’s plain yellow wedding band. I mix them with a small solitaire my parents got me years ago. As long as there is no official e-ring I’m fine with it! I’m not a “follow the rules” kind of girl!

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

That would imply “married” to me because it’s getting more common for women to wear diamomds on their wedding band as well as their engagement ring. I don’t understand why you’re wearing your non-engagement diamond ring on that finger though, why not one of your 9 others?

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I don’t think it’s weird at all, but I’d be concerned about friction between the two bands leading to scratches on the metal.

As long as you don’t mind when people assume you’re married when they see your left hand, it shouldn’t matter. 

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I could definitely see why people would assume that, if it is a band that looks like a wedding band and I would probably assume the same thing. But, there are no laws or real rules stating that you cant do it, so who cares. I think its strange when people won’t even wear rings on that finger, for example, before I got engaged I would sometimes wear thin, stacked rings on that finger (along with other fingers) and people would be like “oh are you married now?” I was like what? Uhh i got like 10 of these for $3.50 at forever 21, do they, along with my other cheap jewelry, really look like wedding rings?? Lol 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Not that this is of any merit, but Miley Cyrus has been stacking her engagement ring with eterinty bands. Do what you want, just know that most people (if they look at your hand) will assume your married, as two bands is the “typical” ring arrangement after marraige. 

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