Post # 1
So I had a really weird dream last night. I’m not even engaged yet but I had a dream that I was getting married.
In my dream, it was supposed to be the night of the rehearsal dinner. I was reminding everyone to be there at a certain time. Then I start talking to my brother on Facebook chat and he asks me if I’m ready to get married tomorrow.
Then it hits me. I realize that I never bought a dress. I never picked out the music, caterer, flowers, etc. Basically, I am supposed to have a wedding tomorrow and my entire family as well as my groom’s family will be showing up. AND I HAVE NOTHING PLANNED. Not even a venue picked out!
So in a panic, I call my Boyfriend or Best Friend and tell him that we have to plan an entire wedding in one night. So he picks me up and the two of us start touring venues. But here’s the problem.
Every venue we see looks like an abandoned, dilapidated place! There’s cobwebs everywhere, it’s dark and spooky.
And now I’m freaking out even more because I can’t find a venue that doesn’t look like it needs to be condemned by the city.
And that’s the last thing I remember. I woke up at that point. Lol it was so unsettling! Has anyone else had a crazy wedding related dream like this? The weird thing is that I’m not even engaged yet and I had this dream. I wonder what Freud would say about this lol.
Post # 3
@LadyBlackheart: I’ve been having them for about a month now and I’m starting to think it’s a sign I’ve lost my mind completely. Last night, after reading on here about a Bee whose salon *rented out her dress to a debutant for a ball*, I had a dream the same thing happened to my dress 😡
Post # 4
@badabing88: Omg, I would freak out if that happened to me lol. Especially since teenagers are not exactly the epitome of being responsible and careful.
I don’t think you’ve lost your mind, you have a legit reason to have these dreams since you’re so close to getting engaged 🙂
Post # 5
To me it sounds like a classic anxiety dream. Am I ready for the next stage of my life? The part about reminding everyone to be there at a certain time may represent the fact that you are at the age when marriage is the next likely phase. It’s that “time.”
Post # 6
@weddingmaven: Wow, that seems really accurate now that I think about it. Thanks for responding, your interpretation is pretty spot-on! 🙂
Post # 7
Well christ knows what people would make of my dream but the night before last I dreamt by SO’s brother professed his love for me and wanted to marry me and SO was dragging his heals so I left him for his brother!!!!! A very random and creepy dream (No I am secretly in love with the brother or anything like that!) I woke up feeling really guilty but couldn’t tell SO (I normally tell him when I have weird dreams) as that would have been too gross!!!! lol.