(Closed) Weird?

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 4
57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

When you say "correspondence" do you mean the RSVP card?

I don’t think that’s weird. Mine were sent to my parents’ house in a different state; if they are hosting then the RSVP’s can be sent to them. 

Post # 5
311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

Not weird at all.  Our wedding is in Maryland, but the RSVP’s were sent to Seattle, where we live.

Post # 6
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

For several of the weddings I’ve been to, the RSVPs have been handled by someone other than the bride and groom — usually one of the parents. If you’re concerned about confusing your guests, you could always include wording to the effect of "Please return this RSVP to the bride’s mother by [date]."

Post # 7
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I don’t think it’s odd at all. In my area, where a lot of girls get married young (21-23 usually), the RSVPs usually go to parents.

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