(Closed) “We’ll be there either by invite or by crashing”

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@futuremrste:  WTH. Hopefully the venue is top secret…

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Welll that’s a bit rude. Hope they were joking, at the least. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Guest list & security.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@hisprettygirl:  I second this!

I would make sure it’s known that no one who isn’t invited will have a seat or meal. You shouldn’t have to pay for people you don’t want at your wedding, and there is no way I would. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

OH HELL NO.

WTF happened to manners?! I mean I’m not exactlly the etiquette police but COME ON.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

This is something I’d totally say to someone as a joke, so are you sure there isn’t a slim chance that they’re just playing with you?

Regardless, you have tons of time.  Don’t worry about this, and when your day comes around just enjoy it.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@futuremrste:  Condolences on your aunt. 

As for your cousins, throw them off the scent of the wedding. Give them a fake date and venue, sit back and chuckle to yourself.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

… oh man thats super disrespectful. 🙁

Post # 11
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Newbee

This seems like a joke to me. They seem to just be teasing about how much they want to come to your wedding. I dont think they will hiding in bushes in camo unitards anytime soon so you probably dont need to worry about security 😉 . If you dont plan on inviting them just keep telling them that you havent really planned anything yet. Enjoy the planning process and forget about the crazies 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

wow..

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@futuremrste:  I think they’re joking….noone could say something like that to your face and mean it seriously…I hope!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I might say something like that in fun…but not with any seriousness intended! Do you know them well enough to know if they would actually do something like that?? If they would, that is just plain crazy!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yes I have some fam members on my dad side of the fam trying to do this. I’m not even giving them a date. I just said its undetermined right now cause we got so much other stuff goin on. That’s all I’m giving them… that or tellin them it’s going to be a Destination Wedding. I don’t care. I dont even socialize with these people and they EXPECT to be at my wedding?? This is NOT a family reunion.

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