- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I’m assuming at minumum he’d be in there for a least 5 years and in all honesty when he was in prision for a year she started dating someone else saying she’d never go back to him and then when that relationship didn’t work out and he got out of jail she went running back to him and saying ‘she knew she’d always go back’. She couldn’t wait for him to get out of jail for a year so I can’t see her waiting 5.. she’s already complaining that she’s almost 30 and has to start all over ( you have no idea how bad I wanted to say ‘WELL YOU DID THIS TO YOURSELF I TOLD YOU THIS WOULD HAPPEN!!) I mean I don’t know I sometimes feel like she just loves being in a relationship and the more someone pays her attention the more she’s in love. Aside from his doucheness to other people and his issues he literally worshipped the ground that she walked on so she thinks she could never find someone who loves her as deeply as him (which is bull) I am completely like you it’s hard for me to not say I told you so and was already telling her when I have kids I just wouldn’t feel comfortable with him around my child.. of course she got defensive but whatever I had solid reasons to feel that way. I told her today after this stunt with this guy she better start listening to friends and family because they have her best interest at heart and if she pulls this again with another boyfriend I am DONE!
He is completely the kind of person who if made bail would show up at her house so i’m happy her family forced her to change the locks. His father has made bail for him before but with bail being this high I’m sure he doesn’t have the money because as of today it says he is still in custody. This guy has put his family through so much I think their done too. His father even called my friend to tell her how amazing she was to him and how much of a great person she is but she doesn’t deserve what he is doing to her and as his father he is telling her that his son is no good.
Because she has been my best friend for over 14 years I will always be there for her.. I will always be there to help her pick up the pieces but in all honesty I have no sympathy for her.. she was told over a dozen times to leave him, she was told over a dozen times he was no good and she didn’t listen.
I have a father who is not really in my life because he had a drug problem since I was a baby and has been in and out of jail for almost 30 years, my mother left him before I turned two and the way I see it if my mother was strong enough to leave then she should have been too. I tried telling her men like him are like my father..they never know how to change, they might deep down be a great guy but in the end they will ruin your life. She thought she knew it all and that everyone was just trying to take away your happiness well you know what how’s your happiness now? was it worth wasting 5 years of your life and not listening to the people who love you the most? Had she left him from the beginning she could be settling down with someone great like she wants but she always learns the hard way. Like I said I will continue to be the shoulder that she cries on because she is family to me and no matter how idiotic she was for staying I will still be there for her in the end.. but I agree it’s hard to have sympathy.