(Closed) Well I finally have baby fever…. how to know when you are ready

posted 4 years ago in Babies
Post # 2
3111 posts
Sugar bee

Honestly, I think anyone is rarely ‘ready’ in the sense that there will be always something you think you will need.  People have been having babies for generations – some with more and some with less…young/old/rich/poor…etc.  From each category, you will find good and bad parents as well as happy kids and the quite the opposite.

Obviously you want to be as prepared as you can.  These are good things to consider.  Childcare IS expensive so I would suggest that you all see how this can fit into the budget.  Shucks, my 4 year old daughter is $220 bucks a week and my son goes part time for 100 bucks a week and that’s not even on the highest end in Philadelphia. 

But to me, the hardest part is the emotional and physical toll of bringing up a little one – at least at first so as long as you have a solid relationship and both of you are reasonably financially secure, I think things have a way of working itself out.

Post # 3
325 posts
Helper bee

hollyberry4:  We set an ideal timeline of at least one year post-wedding. We are completely financially and emotionally ready now, so we aren’t necessarily trying to avoid it as much as we could, either. We just wanted to travel a bit and revamp some things in our home first.

We didn’t realize that we are ready NOW (less than a year in) until we recently thought I could be pregnant, and found out I wasn’t. We were (and are) both admittedly pretty disappointed. The potential of having a baby really got us really excited, and our reaction to the negative test made us question just exactly what we are waiting for. 

Post # 4
7647 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

hollyberry4:  We wanted to be married a year, have a house, and dog. We got married in July 2012, had a house by March 2013, dog by June, and then we started trying, so we were slightly early on the TTC front, but we both felt emotionally ready. We had/have a very good income, loving relationship, and there was really no good reason to wait.

We now have a beautiful 4 month old <3

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