(Closed) Well… I Think he gave me a timeline! Help

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@mcarey2:  Not sure what you need help with, but congratulations! It sounds like he is very clear on his timeline and you are excited about it.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

@mcarey2:  Timelines should be vague, unless you don’t want your proposal to be a surprise. I think the timeline he gave you is narrow enough already.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - DD born 2015 DS born 2017

If you have your own opinions on the timeline, make sure your partner knows, but in my personal opinion that timeline sounds very reasonable- you should wait to plan a wedding at least until one of you is done with school, but be aware that your future fiance might be busy in his last year studying while planning the details, so perhaps have the wedding a little after he’s done graduated and he’s settled into his job after that. Congratz!!

Post # 8
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Newbee

It sounds like he’ll do it a little before the two year mark, and want to be married around a year after that ๐Ÿ™‚ YAY!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@mcarey2:  What is the problem here the man you love wants to marry you…and you…are happy, dislike it?

Post # 10
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Busy bee

@MrsYoshida:  Since her fiance is in medical school and will most likely be doing a residency afterward (unless he’s planning on getting his MD and not working as a physician), the timeline for when the wedding likely be held time-wise is a bit different than just the regular “wait until you finish school and then get settled into your jobs” type of advice.

 

4th year of medical school actually seems like it’d be a great time to plan a wedding and get married. The first half of the year can be busy, but the second half is basically relaxed time until intern year starts. Plus they migh even be able to take a longer honeymoon before intern year.

 

Intern year is crazy in terms of time, emotions, and spirits. It’s a really tough year and takes a strain on relationships. It’s really not a good time to plan and have a wedding.

 

@mcarey2:  This sounds really promising! As long as you two are on the same page, that is awesome ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

He is just putting his intentions out there and letting you know what he wants….do you think that its too soon to get married/engaged? dont do anything u r not ready for

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