(Closed) “Well, I think she’s stupid.”

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

This is really bizarre. Obviously, she didn’t articulate her thoughts very well at all. Personally, I would have a problem with her language, as well. I find it entirely inappropriate to call anyone “stupid,” especially in front of my children. Yikes. 

Post # 4
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1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Easier said than done but the only way to get to the bottom of it is to ask her what she meant by that comment. I’d be dying to know and I’d regret not confronting the situation, you can ask Darling Husband for support and depending on the relationship maybe you’d want him to ask…but if you are the one to do it then you can read her reaction instead of having someone else interpret it for you. 

Post # 6
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637 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

This is just weird.

If FI’s relationship is good with his mom…maybe you can have him check it out and talk to his mom about it? I feel like there is more to it.  Maybe your Future Mother-In-Law is not referring to this ride but something else.  I would be dying to know too.

I am not a confrontational person in general.  So I don’t like to go directly to Mother-In-Law as Me vs. Her.  I rather have Fiance step in as his mom made a negative comment in front of me. Have him talk to her.

OR sometimes Mother-In-Law might have talked bad behind your back in front of Fiance and Fiance just didn’t want to let you know.  Should ask Fiance about his opinions too. 

If Fiance is clueless I think he would be more than happy to fix this for you two before it gets worse down the road, know what I mean?  I mean, at the very least right now, it kind of worsen the relationship of you and your Future Mother-In-Law, right? 

I am happy you are bonding with your stepsons though. 

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