Well it happened…he called me a b!tch

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 61
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416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

A man wouldn’t have but ONE time to raise his voice and call me out of my name, he’d NEVER see me again, he wouldn’t even get a chance to explain himself…..after I cussed him out.

Post # 62
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568 posts
Busy bee

notmeeither :  Very insightful, I hope OP will really stop to think about everything you’ve said. 

cmsgirl :  All of this. OP this relationship is so glaringly unacceptable that you’ve received unanimous concern from a diverse group of people that are seldom unanimous. Please want better for yourself than this. 

Post # 63
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456 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

You’re describing the clsssic cycle of abuse. He makes you feel like shit and then he’s your best friend, shining example of a great partner. And then he makes you feel like shit again. He’s MANIPULATING you. He’s playing games with you. You can try to rationalize it all you want but if it was a friend of your or a stranger typing these things I bet you’d see it from the outside. It’s so obvious to us on the outside. I’ve been on the inside. I’ve rationalized shit that made no sense at all. Gave excuses for him for everything because of that act they play – the best friend perfect white knight side. But it’s all a smokescreen. He’s showing you his true colors when he does these bad things to you. Please believe that. The longer you stay in, the more brainwashed you get and the harder it is to get out. If ALL of us are telling you this, you’ve gotta believe it. Please. 

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