Post # 1
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Bumble bee
OMG ladies i am totally freaking out and dont know what to do.
Fiance and i got home from dinner and had a drink and watched a movie. We started joking around totally innocent fun and i guess we were making alot of noise. Well then Fi got a txt from the MINISTER that lives below him that said “Y’all must be playing WWF” i am mortified, I think that he thinks that we were fooling around in a sexual way, and that was totally not the case. Him and Fiance exchanged a few more Txts and then the minister asked what church we will be going to tomorrow, Fiance txted him back saying that we really havnt gone since we moved. The minister txted him back saying that if we were in a churchy mood that service started at 10:30. We have no idea what to txt back.
I am so imbarressed, i just want to curl up in a ball and Die. I am a practicing catholic and this is something that i never thought would happen. We were totally just playing around innocently, chasing eachother around the apartment.
I really dont know what to do.
Post # 3
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Busy bee
I wouldn’t even worry about it, girl! You weren’t doing anything ‘wrong’ and it really shouldn’t be his business to pry in your life anyway!
Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
ministers are people too, they have fun and games and shock – sex also so dont stress it. its only a big deal if you make it a big deal, otherwise hes just a neighbor that wanted to point out nicely that the noise upstairs was disturbing his evening
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
@ChantelleyLace: i kinda felt that way too, but i hate that he thinks that we were fooling around. honestly yes we have beensexually active, we have also been together for almost 5 years are engaged, but recently decided to wait until we are married. And then this happens. I am so happy that we are moving in a week and a half.
Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
he’s banging his wife. right. now. LOL
Post # 7
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Bumble bee
@mwitter80: haha this made me feel better. but he is single. he and Fi spnt like an hour talking the other day. he is the same age as Fiance (23) and is hoping to open a clothing store.
Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
Just try to keep it down next time? He was probably giving you a nudge like “Hey, you’re being loud and I can hear you.” It’s not a big deal. Nothing in that text says SEX to me.
Post # 9
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Bumble bee
thanks all for your input. I was/am so embarrased. Im sure that you are all right that he was just saying that he could hear us.
Post # 10
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Honey bee
@mattsgirl813: I’m just curious, how did he know you guys were doing anything roudy? Even if he misinterpreted it.
Post # 11
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Helper bee
I also got an innocent vibe from the text. Unless he says otherwise, I think he was jokingly,(nicely) trying the tell you that you were being a little too loud. I wouldn’t worry. Even IF he did think it was sexual it’s not his place to pass judgement.
Post # 12
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Bumble bee
@Mrs Hedgehog: because we were running through the apartment. It started when Fiance went to stick a label off something to the back of my shirt and it got stuck in my hair. H ran off so that i wouldnt stick it to him, then i chased him. sriously like 3 min later he got the txt