(Closed) well, it’s something…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I used to love little things like that. I found that comments calmed my waiting beast for a little while. 🙂

Post # 6
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Helper bee

It is definitely the little things that count.  For my SO to just utter the “M” word is a big feat.  And it’s happening more and more.  So do the I love you’s.  Some guys are just s l o w !!  Doesn’t mean they don’t love you or that it’s never going to happen.

I liked this one you just got – very sweet!  WHEN not IF.  Love it.

Post # 8
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Helper bee

That’s right!  I’ve decided to be more positive about it.  Been with my SO three years and I’ll admit that the first 2 were “iffy” as far as it ending up in marriage.  Slowly but surely I’m getting better signs.  I think focusing on the positive will help instead of focusing on what he hasn’t done or said. 

Not to the point of delusion of course…but that’s my new plan.  Also not bringing up the M word and not discussing it unless he brings it up first. Seems to really be relieving him.

 

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Those are awesome moments. It will make you not so anxious even if its just for a few minutes 😉

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yay! One step closer!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That is great!! One step closer!!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

@onelovegal: That’s more than something! To have a when and not an if is a big deal. Great feeling and definitely eases the waiting anxiety.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

yay!!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

I love definites- *yay*

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