- 3 months ago
- Wedding: January 2017
Hello lovely bees, as you can tell from my prior posts, I have a problem Mother-In-Law. So much more drama has happened, she has started problems between my husband and myself.
Was planning on having her stay at a hotel starting this Tuesday, I thought everything had settled a little bit but man was I wrong.
I gave her more (supervised) time with Dirty Delete, but she still tried to micromanage me and had the nerve to criticize my milk supply saying she checked it and it’s not fatty enough. I had enough and told her shes exceeding her weight goals, etc and that that unless I asked for her advice not to give it.
I’m up most of the night with Dirty Delete as she likes to stay up more then which is fine- we just nap more together during the day. Fed Dirty Delete at 4, napped til 6, fed, woke up after 9. Heard mil telling Darling Husband “she’s been sleeping for over 5 hours, no wonder she’s going to be up all night”. I came out and said “nope, she’s fed twice and we napped together”
Everything blew up when she went for a walk later and Darling Husband exploded on me saying she’s never going to want to come over again because I don’t sit and have meals with her and how’s she supposed to feel? I told him im with her 24/7 inside the home, always talking with her, asking if she needs anything, coffee, tea, etc, let her have my daughter, and honestly thought everything was ok. I don’t have breakfast with her because I’m usually passed out at that time from being up all night.
She was outside our apartment door, listening , when we were yelling at eachother and heard me say some things about her , namely the controlling, etc. And how were fighting because of her. She came in crying and I told her sorry she had to hear those things but it was a mistake having her come for almost 4 weeks when we only have a 1bdr and with a newborn, it’s just too much. She wants to go home early, this Thursday (which im over the moon about).
So it’s just turned midnight, I’m holding my newborn onmy chest, Darling Husband is sleeping since 10, mil is hiding in the bedroom, and I’m celebrating alone with my little babe.
Happy new years to me lol! 💯🍷🗽