Post # 1
My fiancé and I had our first fight about money and so he went off to go hang out with his friend and I went grocery shopping. An hour later I called him and he was driving home after just going for a drive to clear his head. So I was on the phone telling him I’m not sure if I want to be around him right now because I don’t want to fight anymore and I’m still upset and I hear:
“Oh f***” *crash noises*
So I’m thinking “Oh my God Oh my God Oh my God I knew something like this would happen to me why won’t he reply back to me.” But I could hear him searching for his phone so I relaxed a little…I’ve always been pretty sure that something like that would happen to me…be one of those people whose SO dies in a car crash or something while they’re not so happy with each other.
Evidently he swerved to not hit a racoon and ended up hitting the guard rail…so I’m still waiting for him to get home, but he’s okay thankfully. I’m hoping his car isn’t ruined either (he just got it). I really just want to bang my head against a wall right now. I’m numb and overwhelmed at the same time.
Post # 3
The good news is he is ok and that is what is really important. With the fight, maybe the two of you can make an agreement to never leave the house without a kiss and an “I love you” no matter what is going on. Darling Husband and I have this agreement, we disagree with eachother, but with his job being very dangerous, it is really important to me to know that “if” something happened to him “I love you” will always be the last words I said to him.
Post # 4
@tksjewelry: That’s how I am, and he said I love you before he left, but when I was calling to find out when he was going to be home I ended up telling him not to come home….which, I meant for the moment, not forever and he knows it, but I’d still feel incredibly awful if something had happened….
Post # 5
@tksjewelry: I really like that idea.
Post # 6
I do the same, always say “I love you” every time we hang up the phone or leave because you truly never know what could happen.
I am very glad that he is okay though!
Post # 7
makes you rlly put things in prospective …. thnk god everything ended up good.