Well this is a hard pill to swallow.

posted 3 months ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Bee Keeper

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sweetkat92 :  THIS IS ONE PILL YOU DO NOT “NEED TO SWALLOW”. In other words, don’t put up with it!

Post # 32
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Honey Beekeeper

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sweetkat92 :  I thought you were paying all the rent and bills. Why are you still with this pathetic, abusive, lazy, using, excuse for a boyfriend? If he’s been saving for a house all this time, it’s been at your expense. He didn’t even want to put your name on a mortgage, but expected you contribute to the down payment and mortgage. What possible redeeming quality does he have other than being a warm body? 

No woman should tolerate this behavior. He’s showing you exactly who he is and has been for a long time now. 

Post # 33
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

If any man ever said to me “*itch get out of bed and make me breakfast” that skillet would be so far up his ass he would never have to worry about getting enough iron again.

Post # 34
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Blushing bee

He sounds like a selfish asshole and you really don’t have to put up with him. Hopefully you dump him and wait for someone that treats you better.

Post # 35
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Helper bee

Guys don’t care about marriage like we do …he cares for u yes but he’s happy with how it is now..he has u already that’s all he needs ..physically …guys focus on money more than marriage .. u wanna rush he wanna wait same story for a lot of us…u have to decide do u wanna wait for him to finally come around or do u wanna leave ? A lot of guys on this boat 🚣‍♀️ sadly for us. 

Post # 36
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

OP, you established a precedent the first time he treated you like garbage and you stayed. Why would he think he needs to treat you any other way now? Leave NOW and never let someone treat you that way again. You have to walk away the first time it happens and never look back. 

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