(Closed) Well..Let him make the choice?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
3421 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

I know nothing but I like the first one

Post # 5
1402 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I think they’re both very pretty.  You should add them to the list and let your SO decide.

I’m in a similar situtation as you.  I didn’t exactly tell my SO what to get me at Christmas, but I knew he was getting me a garmin.  I also know he’s getting me the tiffany “charm enhancer” ring holder when I come visit him.  Blah.  I knew  he was getting it for me, but he ruined the surprise by telling me.

Sometimes it’s nice (although scary!) to give up control.

Post # 7
1417 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

They are both very pretty! Does he want you to pick out the ring? Or are you doing this to help him out?

  My SO want’s it to be a complete suprise so I have no IDEA what my ring will look like! It drives me crazy sometimes but hey this is the ONE time he will be able to do something without me helping( cough cough controlling it) LOL.

  EDIT- I looked again, I like the first one better!

Post # 8
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

They are both gorgeous! Personally, I beleive that you should put them both on your wish list, and then let him choose. That way if he wants to “surprise” you, then he is able to.

Post # 9
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I like the first one better, but that’s because I’m not a fan of plain bands.

At first what me and my guy did was when we looked for rings, we picked out 4 styles that I really liked. We took pictures with each one on my hand. Originally I told him he could pick one of those styles so he could surprise me. However, I couldn’t get that last ring out of my head, and he couldn’t either. So we decided to get the last one, and put a nice sapphire it. We finished designing it yesterday and he’s ordering it sometime in the next week.

My point is, if you give him choices, but you find yourself continuously thinking about a specific one over and over again, tell him, because you don’t want to be disappointed that he picked a different one. It will still be a surprise because the proposal is a whole different matter.

Good luck! 🙂

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