(Closed) Welllll FBIL and gf finally got to FI and I!!!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

Okay, you’re going to have to edit that a bit because I’m totally lost.

Your Fiance decided that he’s not going to invite his brother and the brother’s girlfriend to the wedding.  That’s what I got.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

as long as this is something that doesnt upset any of the other family members, this is reall good for you guys. its a tough thing to do but sometimes is necessary. My SO and I are getting engaged before the end of march and have not even started planning and already we are seeing the beginnings of family drama starting up. Im sure we will see our fair share of it. Its so good that you guys have a solution everyone is ok with. Im sure its a huge weight off of your shoulders.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@mink:  what i got was that there have been ongoing problems with Future Brother-In-Law and his Girlfriend. Something happened that was the final straw. Someone other than the Future Brother-In-Law is going to be the best man. The rest of the family is ok with the Future Brother-In-Law and Girlfriend not being invited and everything is happy again 🙂

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@cherryblossomlove:  I think sometimes when people see others do things they wish they were doing that jealousy monster can take over. Your wedding day is ultimately about you and your new husband and those that love and support you and it seems based on this post and your past posts that they did not do that. I know etiquette says certain things about family being invited and certain members are supposed to be there but in my mind I only want people there there love both me and my SO and are there to celebrate our committment to each other. Those two sounded like it was all about them, not just in regards to your wedding but in general. I do hope though that at some point the relationship can be salvaged or improved, having a falling out between family members, especially siblings is always a sad and hard thing.

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