(Closed) Went for a scan today and there was no heartbeat.

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. I dont have any advice on how to deal and move on from this, just internet hugs from a stranger.


Post # 4
4435 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@phoebephoebo:  I’m so sorry:( I wish you and Darling Husband strength in coping with this difficult time. *hugs*

Post # 5
2324 posts
Buzzing bee

im sorry – i hope turns out ok xx

Post # 6
371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m so sorry to hear this. I wish I had words to help comfort you. Grieve as you need to and lean on each other to get you through. Hugs being sent to you!

Post # 7
7642 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@phoebephoebo:  I don’t want to give false hope, but was there any chance they just couldn’t find the heartbeat? I tried googling for when you’re first meant to hear the heartbeat, and there was a huge range of answers. ((((((((Huge hugs))))))) whatever way this goes.

Post # 8
4150 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so, so sorry. I have no words that will comfort you…but I just wanted you to know my

heart goes out to you. I’m just so sorry. Take care of yourself. xoxox

Post # 9
9951 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I am so sorry you are dealing with this.

(( HUGS )) to you & your Hubby

May you find comfort & strength in the love you have for each other in this hard time


Post # 10
4430 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@phoebephoebo:  I’m confused.  im not sure if I’m saying sorry for your loss? Or if you just aren’t sure yet about what’s happening ?  

Post # 13
8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I am SO sorry to see this. Sending our virtual hugs to you!

Post # 14
1248 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

i am so sorry for your loss… Counseling sounds like it would be a great idea to help you through this time and like you said, learning how to cope. know you’re in our thoughts and hoping time will heal the hurt.

Post # 15
2874 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

im sorry thats an awful thing to happen. i think counselling can really help in situations like this

there are a lot of bees who had the same thing happen and went on to have healthy babies/get pregnant so it might be worth looking for the rainbow baby thread 

Post # 16
17 posts
  • Wedding: July 2013

I recently went thru a similar experience.  At first I felt like I wanted to die.  I couldn’t function for days.  I even told my husband that I don’t want to try again because it hurt so so bad.  It’s been over a month now and I’m feeling much better.  Time heals all wounds.  I won’t ever forget this experience, but I’m deffinately doing much better and more hopeful for the future.  Just give it time and I promise, you will smile again.

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