(Closed) Went to a wedding

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

That is so obnoxious!  I would have definitely been really annoyed

Post # 4
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5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I’ve learned that people will complain about anything and everything! It’s sad really…and when I go to a wedding, I try to see the good in everything. Have there been weddings where I didn’t have a ton of fun? Of course, but I don’t feel the need to let everyone else know what I thought went wrong or wasn’t to my own taste. Everyone has their idea of a perfect wedding, and who am I to judge??

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

In those situations, I like to shoot people dirty looks… because if you (not you, but people in general) say something, you’re adding to the problem of speaking during the ceremony.

 

I’m having my wedding on a yacht too. It’s nice to hear that it was pretty. 🙂

Post # 6
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690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I always felt like people are only vicious and snarky at weddings if they are jealous of the couple’s happiness or very shallow.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@EmeraldR: totally agree!  You’re supposed to be there in support of the couple, not to nitpick at everything!!!  Be happy for them…is that so hard to ask?

Post # 10
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I also hate it when people do this AT the actual wedding. No matter how bad a wedding is, at the time I always act like everything is amazing just to keep a positive atmosphere for the bride and groom. After the wedding, all bets are off so if you weren’t fed for 6 hours straight you’re allowed to complain!

Post # 11
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240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

ugh that is so annoying!  i may have in the past complained about certain aspects of the wedding until I planned my own (though never actually at the wedding)  i definitely had to eat my words when i came to learn how hard it is to please everyone! 

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

People just like to talk. I’m over it. I guarantee that no matter what I do, people will talk. I spent too much. I didn’t spend enough. Why did I do that instead of that? Meh. whatevs. 🙂

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