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posted 4 years ago in October 2013
Post # 3
914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

AHHHH someone at work last night said “So you’re 4 months out, are you pretty much done with everything?” I just stared at them lol.

Post # 5
914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MrsFutureG:  I need help making up my mind! I feel like I am not set in stone on a lot of things and that is what drives me the most crazy. I think I finally settled on wedding colors though: navy, coral, blush and white/silver. And I am not doing the very popular vintage/rustic look but it’s also not modern. Maybe classic/romantic? See what I mean? lol

Post # 7
3199 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Nurse_Bee:  i get this all the time. i think its mostly from people who have never planned a wedding. i’m usually like, “the big stuff, yeah” and smile at them. they have no idea. haha

Post # 8
3783 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

AHHH I’m so excited!!! I still have to order linens (we’re buying instead of renting) but we need to wait to see how much we’ll need! That’s the last “big” thing left… I think.

Post # 9
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It is so crazy! I feel like this time is going to FLY by. Is that good or bad? Probably depends 🙂

Big stuff left:

  • -Make-up artist
  • -Flower girl dress
  • -Suit for FI and BM (he is procrastinating)
  • -Wedding bands
  • -Finish writing ceremony

Little things (but there are a lot):

  • -Tablecloth for dinner (we are doing one, long table, so this has been a challenge)
  • -Wedding jewelry
  • -Getting ready attire
  • -Bowtie for our pup/ringbearer
  • -Flower girl basket
  • -Gifts for parents
  • -Determine ceremony music
  • -Order marriage license
  • -Need a few more vintage plates
  • -Paper items (menus, placecards, personalized crossword)
  • -Finalize game table selections
  • -Buy favors (chocolate cigars)
  • -Get pie plates
  • -Figure out wine pairings
  • -Make playlist for dinner (frank sinatra, etc.)
  • -Send invites (considering a calligrapher, I found a good one over the weekend)

Post # 10
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve been engaged since September 2010, though we didn’t start planning until July 2012, so part of me can’t believe there is only 4 months left but the other part of me is SO ready for it to be here!

Post # 11
914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013


@MrsFutureG:  I actually do have the centerpieces and everything pretty much set up. This makes me feel better. I am getting married at a county club/golf course and I will post some pictures. I think I am going to end up hiring a design company to help tie everything together. Here is what I have:

  • Venue
  • Menu
  • Photographer
  • Videographer
  • DJ
  • Florist (centerpieces through her)
  • Going to sign the contract for a draped gazebo instead of ceiling draping Thursday
  • Chiavari chairs
  • Honeymoon
  • My dress/veil
  • BM dresses
  • Invitations/RSVPs

Things I still need to do:

  • Decide on a sort of “theme” to get things cohesive looking
  • Little odds and ends like the card holder, place cards, garter, ring bearer pillow, etc…
  • Make final decisions on tuxes (may do that today)
  • Decide whether or not to use DJ for ceremony or find a musician
  • Accessories for myself/BMs including a bolero
  • Ummm get in better shape LOL

Maybe I do have more together than I thought I did! This makes me feel way better!

As far as a DJ for the ceremony, would that be okay? I deifnitely want strings to be played during the ceremony and cocktail hour so I wanted to make a Vitamin String Quartet playlist for him to go through, but do you think that is cheesy to have a DJ play strings? Or should I just spring for the musicians? There is a local college of music that I think I could get strings for a fairly decent price (though more than the DJ) but I am just so worried about the flakiness of being a college student. I guess I could always just have the DJ play if they don’t show…

Am I forgetting anything? Do you like the sounds of my colors? 

Post # 12
281 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I know how you feel! We got engaged 18 months ago. I’m so excited it’s getting so close 🙂 I love seeing it all start to come together.

Post # 14
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Nurse_Bee:  I’m planning on using a DJ for the ceremony and having him play VSQ.  I don’t think it’s cheesy.  Most of the weddings I’ve been to use DJ’s for the ceremony.

Post # 15
460 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Nurse_Bee:  I’ve been getting this from people, too. And we’re having a fairly short engagement (about 8.5 months), so we’re just about halfway through. Umm, no, we’re not done.

I feel like we have so much left to do! But we sent out our save the dates (my fiance made a great video that everyone seems to love) and booked our honeymoon two days ago. That was a really productive day! Now to just do everything else, lol.

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